Welcome to Fellowship of Older Gays

Fellowship of Older Gays (FOG) is a California Mutual Benefit Corporation to provide social activities, emotional support, and education for older gay men.  The primary focus of FOG is to provide weekly activities for its members.

The Board wishes to remind the membership that all FOG in-person activities are limited to those who are fully vaccinated.

FOG has started additional in-person activities – breakfast, lunch, and dinner events. These will be held in places that have OUTDOOR venue & service. See calendar for specifics.

Saturday coffee event on December 25th is cancelled.


Time to renew memberships. Members not renewed by January 21st, 2022 will no longer receive a newsletter. The annual dues has increased to $20.00.
Even with the increase, the dues does not cover ALL the expenses of this organization. We have been able to maintain the basic dues because many members have voluntarily contributed above and beyond the annual membership fee. Your dues AND extra donations helps cover insurance, subsidizing the Anniversary dinner & summer picnic, this website, and other expenses. With your continued support and dues, we will continue to make a difference in the lives of many gay men in San Diego.

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Download an App called Zoom by typing in your web browser www.Zoom.us/download and press enter.  Click on the top large blue Download button under Zoom Client for Meetings and follow the instructions to install the free App – it’s quite easy.

For all FOG Zoom meetings you will receive an e-mail invitation with the subject line “Please Join Zoom Meeting in Progress”.  The email will be sent by our Zoom coordinator about 5-10 minutes before the scheduled meeting.  The invitation is unique for each meeting so be sure to use the one for that day.  Click on the “Join Zoom Meeting” link.

Should, for any reason, that not connect you, you can “copy & paste” the link address into your web browser.  The link the invitation contains the Meeting ID: which is 11 digit number and a Passcode: which is 6 digits.

If the link does not work an alternative to the cut & paste method is to type in your browser www.Zoom.us and click enter, from the Zoom home page at the top left there are two words: JOIN HOST.  Click on JOIN (not Host).  The next page has a space to “Enter Meeting ID or Personal Link Name” where you type in the 11 digit Meeting ID from the invitation you received by email and click enter.  It may also ask “Do you want to all this page to open “zoom.us.app” which you have previously downloaded. Press “Allow”.  It may also ask you to type in the 6 digit Passcode from the emailed Invitation.  Also, if it asks be sure to allow or enable both audio and video.